I enjoy private time with my family. When my family and I want to simply stay home and relax together, I make the time to do so.
I love my friends as well, and my time with them allows me the opportunity to let loose and have a few laughs. Such times are precious. However, my top priority is spending time with my family. I feel no shame about placing the needs of my family above those of my friends.
Sometimes I am conflicted as to how to ask for privacy while sparing the feelings of my friends, but my true friends understand. Those who invade my privacy are encouraged to respect my family time. I would much rather cuddle up on the couch with my family than grab a latte with a friend!
For this reason, I establish definite boundaries for my friends. I encourage them to call well in advance before stopping by my home and refrain from calling me during family hours. These requests are well within my rights as I address their privacy with the utmost respect.
Today, I spend the evening with my family sharing our most important time of the day together. Regardless of what activities we choose, it is time well spent in creating wonderful memories we can cherish for a lifetime.
Self-reflection Questions:
1. Is time with friends infringing on my family time?
2. How can I encourage my single friends to respect my family time?
3. How can I maximize the quality time my family spends together each week?
